Haylee Griffith Jade M. Kaki Okumura
Who on the Earth told you that you are Inferior? If you were the person yourself , then don’t worry because it doesn’t mean at all that it was there where it originated. Inferiority complex disorder is such a big boring word . We would call it ‘Lowliness disorder’. If you think your mental health is worse or you suffer from disorder , try addressing the disorder as Dear (When you summon it as dear , you are separating that disorder away as a separate entity. It is not your part and it becomes much easy to stay ahead) . So , our dear lowliness disorder has crept inside you. Once you understand it , you are on the first step of success.
If your feeling of inferiority is this .
Before that , let’s read these lines from Bhagwad Geeta.
“WHY DO YOU WORRY UNNECESSARILY?
WHY DO YOU FEAR NEEDLESSLY WHO CAN KILL YOU?
THE SOUL IS NEITHER BORN NOR IT DIES WHATEVER HAS HAPPENED HAS HAPPENED FOR GOOD , WHATEVER IS HAPPENING IS HAPPENING FOR GOOD AND WHATEVER WILL HAPPEN SHALL ALSO BE FOR GOOD
WHAT HAVE YOU LOST THAT YOU CRY FOR? WHAT DID YOU BRING THAT YOU LOST? WHAT DID YOU CREATE THAT WAS DESTROYED?
YOU CAME EMPTY HANDED AND WILL GO EMPTY HANDED . WHATEVER IS YOURS TODAY WAS SOMEBODY ELSE’S YESTERDAY AND WILL BE SOMEBODY ELSE’S TOMORROW .”
Aren’t these lines life changing? The worry for our dear lowliness disorder is over now. Back in my past, I felt so Inferior that I used to hit myself with rubber bands to make myself realize that I am not good enough for people around me . But then these lines changed a lot and it occurs now that no matter whatever you do in life , there is always be someone superior or someone Inferior than you . It is better to die as a failure and dying with satisfaction than worrying all the time about — I have done nothing in life and comparing ourselves with others.
Let me explain you what is inferiority complex disorder in simple words because if you cannot explain something simple enough, then you haven’t understand it (Sources- Albert Einstein’s brain) .
INFERIORITY COMPLEX IS WHEN YOU FEEL INFERIOR OR LOW SELF ESTEEM WITHOUT ANYONE’S CONSENT AND ONLY YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE IT .THERE IS A LIMITING MINDSET BUILT IN YOUR MIND THAT YOU CANNOT MAKE ANY DIFFERENCE BUT THAT MINDSET IS TEMPORARY. IT IS A WEED THAT CAN DESTROY THE BEAUTIFUL FIELDS OF YOUR LIFE. IT IS A WEED THAT GIVES BIRTH TO OTHER NEGATIVITIES.
What are the causes of our dear lowliness disorder?
1. Comparison- Comparing your life with others online and offline. Comparing other’s accomplishments with yours . Comparing will give rise to hatred and more inferiority , in worst cases depression and loneliness. So the only way to stop Comparing is to stop gossiping, stop being with people that make you feel down especially narcisstic, be with someone that motivates you and love yourself.
2. Complaining and blaming- WHATEVER life you have been given , the family and the environment you have been given is perfect for you. You yourself attract people with similar frequency and your own negative traits are revealed when you back bitch people . So stop it right away.
Do this one thing. Create a self reflection page where you write all the negative traits on left side and at the end of the day , mark on those traits if they were there with you today . Repeat and you realize you were wrong and there is more scope for improvement.
THAT’S ALL FOR TODAY. IF YOU ARE INNOCENT TOWARDS YOUR SHORTCOMINGS ,FEEL FREE AND BE GUIDED BY YOUR HEART , YOU WILL NEVER FAIL.
